That's assuming everyone acts the same after an experience. It's also assuming everyone manages their emotions the same which is also clearly not the case. I highly recommend the book How Emotions are Made by Lisa Feldman Barrett

Ooooh I still need to read this one! I loved her previous book and still need to schedule something with her to come on the podcast for a chat!

Oh yeah? Did I mention the amazing @LFeldmanBarrett is coming on the podcast to discuss her incredible book How Emotions Are Made? I can't wait!