31. The Two Endeavors of Being Human with Dr. Robert Kegan. Growing as Grown-Ups Podcast.
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- Nov 9, 2021
- #Psychology #Politics
In this episode, Dr. Robert Kegan shares wisdom and personal stories drawn from his more than forty years of research and writing on adult development. From caterpillars to poker t...
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Jason Scott Montoya @JasonSMontoya
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Aug 4, 2023
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"We want to keep growing and developing but there's also another side of us that wants to make sure that we don't die and you can call it the self-protective side... to not die is basically to not suffer what feels to us like unacceptable losses.
...if in fact the contract became a kind of prison where you will only be included, will only be respected, will only be loved, only be protected if you basically will remain the person that you were.
Then the social environment is more captivating, and it's more constricting. That kind of situation makes the prospect of honoring the first endeavor, honoring your own growth, a much much more risky and costly feeling endeavor because it can feel like in order to honor the forward motion of my own growth I have to actually give up abandon or be cast out from what has been a precious social context." - Kegan
Jason Scott Montoya @JasonSMontoya
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Aug 4, 2023
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"[regarding] our competing commitments... it's almost ironic that if we hang on to those too tightly we're almost guaranteed realizing that death that we're afraid happening but when we have the courage to honor the growth side, we realize the truer version of the thing we were actually trying to protect." - Eigel
Jason Scott Montoya @JasonSMontoya
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Aug 4, 2023
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"There's no way to get your arms around what what has been happening in the country since election day in 2016 right through to what happened in on January [6th] with the insurrection without also understanding the level of of loss, fright, and pain that a very large number of people felt in this country in the years leading up to the 2016 election"
Jason Scott Montoya @JasonSMontoya
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Aug 4, 2023
- Curated in Constructive Development Theory