"God loves them, you can't handle them." - Andy Stanley I can think of multiple people in my life that fit that description. But, I believed I could handle them. "Sometimes it's hard to see the idiot in the mirror." -AS "It's difficult to ignore signs in relationships." - AS "If more than one person has brought to your attention something you need to pay attention to, that's a sign." - AS "If you ignore the signs, you are taking the long way, the wrong way. You may never arrive." - AS "When you're hurt and I'm hurt, it creates a debt / debtor relationship. The hurt, the betrayal, and the abandonment create debt. They owe me a childhood. They owe me a first marriage back. They owe me an opportunity to put my kids back to bed at night..... they owe me, they owe me, they owe me... Their debt becomes your baggage. While we're waiting the demons are lifting weights getting stronger and stronger." - AS "It's not fair to forgive because they actually owe you. It's not about fairness."