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The Romance of Reality: How the Universe Organizes Itself to Create Life, Consciousness, and Cosmic Complexity Hardcover – June 28, 2022
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According to the prevailing scientific paradigm, the universe tends toward randomness; it functions according to laws without purpose, and the emergence of life is an accident devoid of meaning.
But this bleak interpretation of nature is currently being challenged by cutting-edge findings at the intersection of physics, biology, neuroscience, and information theory—generally referred to as “complexity science.” Thanks to a new understanding of evolution, as well as recent advances in our understanding of the phenomenon known as emergence, a new cosmic narrative is taking shape: Nature’s simplest “parts” come together to form ever-greater “wholes” in a process that has no end in sight.
In The Romance of Reality, cognitive neuroscientist Bobby Azarian explains the science behind this new view of reality and explores what it means for all of us. In engaging, accessible prose, Azarian outlines the fundamental misunderstanding of thermodynamics at the heart of the old assumptions about the universe’s evolution, and shows us the evidence that suggests that the universe is a “self-organizing” system, one that is moving toward increasing complexity and awareness.
Cosmologist and science communicator Carl Sagan once said of humanity that “we are a way for the cosmos to know itself.” The Romance of Reality shows that this poetic statement in fact rests on a scientific foundation and gives us a new way to know the cosmos, along with a riveting vision of life that imbues existence with meaning—nothing supernatural required.
- Print length320 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherBenBella Books
- Publication dateJune 28, 2022
- Dimensions6 x 0.7 x 9 inches
- ISBN-101637740441
- ISBN-13978-1637740446
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—Michael Shermer, author of Why Darwin Matters and The Moral Arc
""This is truly a book for the 21st century—the ‘century of complexity.' It is a quite remarkable synthesis of all my favorite things!""
—Karl Friston, neuroscientist at University College London
""What would happen if you tried answering every fundamental question about our existence? Why did life emerge? What is consciousness? Free Will? Self? Knowledge? Information? How do all these concepts fit together? Bobby Azarian's new book is the answer to life, consciousness, cosmic complexity, and everything.""
—Roman Yampolskiy, director of the Cybersecurity Lab at the University of Louisville and author of Artificial Superintelligence
""Bobby Azarian's new book is an impressive tour de force on the scientific territory of the origin of life . . . This is a comprehensive book that will nourish the science hungry and will offer guidance for the young and aspiring scientist.""
—Adrian Bejan, J.A. Jones Distinguished Professor at Duke University and author of The Physics of Life: The Evolution of Everything
""The Romance of Reality is a scientific book with epic psychological implications: How thrilling to realize that the existential bleakness of our reductionist worldview is finally being superseded by the realization that we are in fact nested within rapturously self-organizing systems within systems, in a grand ballet of emergent complexity.""
—Jason Silva, philosopher and former host of National Geographic's Brain Games and Origins
""Bobby Azarian's The Romance of Reality is an audacious state-of-the-art examination of the unfolding of our universe and our place in it using a complexity lens . . . Bobby's startling new synthesis is well-researched and provides a profoundly hopeful path forward for humanity.""
—Jim Rutt, former chairman of the Santa Fe Institute and host of the podcast The Jim Rutt Show
""Some of the most powerful moments in life are the sudden realizations of new insights, where concepts and ideas simply fall into place and answer fundamental questions. The Romance of Reality delivers several such epiphanies in a highly engaging style.""
—Dominik Schiener, cofounder and chairman of the board of directors, The IOTA Foundation
""Bobby Azarian has pulled off the impossible. He has woven together entropy, information theory, and complex adaptive systems to put the life of this cosmos into a single big picture.""
—Howard Bloom, author of The Lucifer Principle and The God Problem
""This book begins to solve the mysteries of the universe . . . Is life random and devolving or complex and evolving? We're at a pivotal moment in our quest to find out. As Azarian brilliantly explains, the universe is waking up through us. This book will help you do likewise.""
—Cenk Uygur, creator of The Young Turks
""The Romance of Reality maps out a mind-expanding path from reductionism to emergence, offering ‘a radical new cosmic narrative' that revels in the sublime beauty of evolution and our plausible collective participation in it.""
—Richard Doyle, Edwin Erle Sparks Professor of English at Penn State and author of Darwin's Pharmacy: Sex, Plants, and the Evolution of the Noosphere
""This book achieves what many assume to be impossible. It takes some of the most difficult and profound concepts there are—What is life? What is consciousness? In what ways is free will real? What is reality?—and provides accessible and enjoyable explanations, while always respecting the depth of these topics.""
—Adam Safron, postdoctoral research fellow, Johns Hopkins Center for Psychedelic and Consciousness Research
""Azarian's The Romance of Reality is an exhaustive and thorough exploration of many of the biggest theories about life and its place in the universe.""
—Johnjoe McFadden, professor of molecular genetics at the University of Surrey and author of Life on the Edge: The Coming of Age of Quantum Biology
""The Romance of Reality makes accessible the essence of a little-known scientific revolution currently sweeping the research community. This revolution makes clear our relatedness to the universe and is destined to provide further answers to all our big questions.""
—John Campbell, author of Universal Darwinism: The Path of Knowledge
""This book was superbly thought-provoking and opened up to me whole new vistas of possibility about the big questions of philosophy and science. I'd highly recommend it for readers interested in the meaning of life, the universe, and everything.""
—Bernie Gourley, The Introverted Yogi"
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Bobby Azarian is a science journalist and a cognitive neuroscientist with a PhD from the Krasnow Institute for Advanced Study at George Mason University. He has written for publications including The Atlantic, The New York Times, BBC Future, Scientific American, Slate, The Huffington Post, and Aeon, and his research has been published in peer-reviewed journals such as Human Brain Mapping, Cognition & Emotion, and Acta Psychologica. His blog “Mind in the Machine,” hosted by Psychology Today, has received over 8 million views. Azarian worked on Season 2 of the YouTube Premium psychology-based series Mind Field (as a consultant and researcher), which helped the show win its first Emmy nomination. He is based in Arlington, Virginia.
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Customers find the book thought-provoking and a well-synthesized philosophical theory of everything. They appreciate the blend of science and spirituality and the hopeful message. However, opinions differ on the writing quality - some find it meticulous and concise, while others find it difficult to understand or not easy to read.
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Customers find the book thought-provoking. They appreciate the well-synthesized philosophical theory of everything and interesting theories about evolution. The blend of science and spirituality is praised as one of the most important science books ever written. Readers enjoy the thoughtful discussions, wonderful ideas, and new perspective on life. The book introduces them to a new perspective on life without wrapping it around religion.
"...work, Bobby Azarian sets out to propose a non-reductionist, unifying theory of reality he calls the 'integrated evolutionary synthesis,' suggesting..." Read more
"...It's a long and thoughtful book that ought to be a 'daring' read for all of us, whether we go to church and have a Faith based Life, or whether we..." Read more
"...some patience and a very open mind, but the questions raised are worthy of the time and effort. Not quite a five, for the reasons stated, but close...." Read more
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Customers have different views on the writing quality. Some find it meticulous and concise, articulating the new cosmic story clearly and entertainingly. Others feel it's difficult to understand, boring, and textbook-like. The language used by scientists is complicated and exaggerated, making it difficult to grasp.
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- Reviewed in the United States on November 3, 2023In this masterful work, Bobby Azarian sets out to propose a non-reductionist, unifying theory of reality he calls the 'integrated evolutionary synthesis,' suggesting that the universe is Darwinian in nature and has spontaneously evolved life and mind. He states: “The overreaching thesis is that we live in a computational universe that is continuously evolving into an increasingly complex, functional, and sentient state. This means that humans are neither a cosmic accident nor the end goal of evolution…”
Azarian’s bold unifying theory will not come from hurling tiny bits of matter near the speed of light around a seventeen-mile-long particle accelerator at CERN in Geneva Switzerland; rather, it will come about by bringing together disparate scientific disciplines that are attempting to answer some of the most compelling questions in science such as: the origins of life, the fine-tuning problem, the question of free will, the quantum measurement problem, and the nature of consciousness. The integrated evolutionary synthesis hypothesis makes a credible attempt at answering all of these.
Whereas many reductionist scientists such as Sean Carroll, Brian Greene, and Neil DeGrass Tyson believe that life is insignificant and fleeting in a purposeless universe where entropy is increasing, Azarian, believes that entropic forces are the engine that create far-from-equilibrium dissipative structures generating order out of chaos. These entropic forces are believed to be the catalyst that drove geochemical and biochemical processes, spawning the first life in alkaline hydrothermal vents on the ocean floor, and it was this abiogenesis moment when information gained causal power as the universe became conscious of itself.
But elementary consciousness has no causal power and is not self-referential. Causal power and free will require a second level of consciousness or self-awareness—to be aware that we are aware. Azarian says, “It is self-reference through self-modeling that brings subjective experience into the world by creating an observer out of thin air… Once we understand the hierarchical structure of life, mind, and cosmos, we begin to see that individual freedom and cosmic destiny are not incompatible.”
Although Azarian believes that the mind emerges from the brain, he does not believe that this epiphenomenal stance is dualistic because information must always be associated with a physical substrate, and thoughts are just “instances of information in action.” But this information processing is unlike a Turing machine.
Citing Godel’s incompleteness theorem, which states that there are mathematical truths that cannot be computed using symbolic logic, Azarian concludes that unlike a computer that just processes information without any real understanding, evolution has given us the ability to comprehend meaning by continually updating our fitness payoffs using recursive trial and error loops.
Having explained abiogenesis, consciousness, and free will, Azarian concludes with an explanation of the quantum measurement problem and the fine-tuning problem, saying that, “If the unifying theory of reality can explain both the fine-tuning problem and the measurement problem, it’ll be more deserving of the title of the theory of everything.” I believe that Bobby Azarian has done just that.
- Reviewed in the United States on December 29, 2023On the final page the author writes " Yes, the world has some serious problems, but if we did not have problems, we would never be forced to find new solutions. Problems push progress forward. Let's embrace our ultimate existential challenges and come together to solve them. It is time to forget our differences and think of ourselves only as humans, engaged in a common biological and moral struggle. If the cosmic perspective, and the philosophy of poetic meta-naturalism, or some similar world-view of evolution and emergence, can build a bridge between the reductionist worldview and the religions of the world, then we can be optimistic that anew level of order and functionality will emerge from the current sea of chaos. " p279.
On p. 258 he asks readers to take a look at the well-know American philosopher, Thomas Nagel, and his book Mind and Cosmos and the concept that we, and scientists as well, may need non-physical laws to "more appropriate to describe them as new laws of physics, as Shroedinger suggested in his book What is Life."
It's a long and thoughtful book that ought to be a 'daring' read for all of us, whether we go to church and have a Faith based Life, or whether we currently claim we are atheists or scientists.
Our understanding of life, the universe and our own biological system appears increasingly to function somewhat like the unified Gaia theory where we are somehow, and somewhere, tied together in 'computer' feed-back loops, and with the accelerating changes in every area already visible with AI insights, it is not unlikely that human kind will, in part, increasingly be interfaced with digital systems. Nor is it unlikely that humankind will have small colonies on the Moon, or several planets before the end of this century.
Mr. Azarian has done an exemplary job leading thoughtful readers through the deeply controversial moral, faith and scientific theories that underpin our current basis for living together. Young people especially, can benefit from re-thinking some of the premises they want to base their lives on.
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- Daniel LachanceReviewed in Canada on October 28, 2022
5.0 out of 5 stars Top 10 best book of my life
I’m a fan of Darwin and natural selection but The Romance of Reality ties up many aspects of evolution that were usually poorly explained. The evolution of information and how information came to exist in the first place, is one of the many extremely important subjects covered.
I’m so great full that Bobby Azarian produced such a useful book. I read it from cover to cover and even got the Audible version. Just super.
There should be a 6 star category for books like The Romance of Reality.
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- TimReviewed in the United Kingdom on April 28, 2023
5.0 out of 5 stars A must read for everyone
Beautifully written, Bobby has woven together threads from a number of disciplines to paint a vivid picture of how, and why, life erupted in the universe. With the laws of thermodynamics as the bedrock of this argument the book feels on solid ground. For me, as student of psychology and neuroscience, I really liked the inclusion of predictive processing, which suggests our brains are evolved machines that try to maintain equilibrium within us by predicting future states and directing physiology and behaviour in order to maintain a chosen state. This theory was related back to thermodynamics, and from here the book built towards a meta idea that portrayed intelligence and self-awareness as goals of the cosmos which allow the universe to observe itself.
- JASohioReviewed in Germany on August 24, 2022
5.0 out of 5 stars Brilliant!
Just as the other 5 star reviews noted, this is a brilliant book on all counts. Written superbly with amazing insights and clarity. I wish this was in German so i could give it to my fellow uni friends (physics).
- rockyReviewed in Canada on May 12, 2023
5.0 out of 5 stars Great book
Great read
- EmilioReviewed in Germany on July 11, 2022
1.0 out of 5 stars Dirty book with used cover.....
EmilioDirty book with used cover.....
Reviewed in Germany on July 11, 2022
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